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Another Word From Diddy!

DEBATE OPINION

First of all $5000 is not enough to go and purchase HEALTHCARE!

What the hell is the Literal Combat Ship? Somebody get back to me on that, seriously.

“You don’t say that outloud” Whaaaaat??

Overall I notice the theatrical aptitude of Sen. McCain. I respect him as a fellow veteran. I wish him luck in his golden years. I’m just not convinced.

OBAMA 08

My thoughts on the state of our Economy

If you wait until you have to boo-boo before you make sure you have toilet paper. You are bound to be in some shit! -Marri

The bail outs need to hit a whole lot closer to home, and that weak ass stimulus check is not what I’m talking about.

OBAMA better hurry and he can’t afford to fuck up once he gets there!

McCain & his whole party can kiss ass. The gas shortages here are not just slowing down democrats. Wake up America! This shit has got to give, and clearly the answer to all this is not sitting in the Republican camp. They fuck us over every time.

I wish we could vote like American Idol and have that shit take effect the next week.
Let’s take back our country, shall we?

Clarity (Written in Aug. 06)

I love the truth. The truth is not always nice but it is comfortable. It is not always in one’s favor but it is tolerable. The truth is what keeps us together, if we were bound by lies we would fall apart at the seams; But we weren’t. That is why the truth feeds us, we crave it and it satisfies our deepest hunger and we are filled.

Being fed lies is much like consuming junk food, we are only content with the taste. It is sweet/crunchy and we feel as if it were better than nothing at all.

But it’s not!!

Over time, lies much like junk food will not be enough to tame our growling insides. It’s salt will be bitter and empty. Our spirits will become fat and lazy much as our bodies react to junk………….And eventually too many LIES much like too much junk food, will kill us.

I am searching for a soul salad.

~Marri

BROKE ASS NIGGA (Written in 2007)

BROKE ASS NIGGA
How do you earn your dough?
Slangin thangs & hustling folks
Trying to get some mo’
BROKE ASS NIGGA
Why do you act a fool?
Cause I don’t know no better
And I feel like I look cool
BROKE ASS NIGGA
Why don’t you have a job?
I’m a Hustla by day
And by night I rob
BROKE ASS NIGGA
Why don’t you own a house?
Man, my credit is bad, and I lost some stuff
When my folk n’em put me out
BROKE ASS NIGGA
Would you do me a favor?
Now why would I do that,
I don’t look out for neighbors
BROKE ASS NIGGA
What I ask won’t cost
Go get a real job,
you’ve been fuckin’ up as your own boss
BROKE ASS NIGGA
You make me sick
You won’t do shit
If it’s not quick
BROKE ASS NIGGA
Get off my plate,
Get your own food,
Not scraps of what I ate
BROKE ASS NIGGA
You are real lame
You think we don’t see past
All your weak ass game
BROKE ASS NIGGA
Go read some books
You won’t get by long
Relying on your looks
BROKE ASS NIGGA
I’m Soooooo happy to say
We’re not falling for your bullshit today!

~Marri

What is smart dating?

Smart dating is when you have some form of a standard, not necessarily a list, but a system that I like to call MeetIt or BeatIt.

MeetIt- Whatever your standard of living is at the time, the person that you are courting should have at the very least, what you have. Make sense? Doesn’t sound like gold-digging does it? Because it’s not! It is knowing your worth. It is the #1 key to not ending up with someone living off of your accomplishments & taking you for granted, or even worse them getting the feeling that you owe them something. (moochers tend to get that act going & its a hard thing to shake if you don’t know how to fight.

BeatIT- This is the complex portion of the philosophy. Either your potential mate needs to exceed the current standard of living(BeatIt). Or he/she needs to kick rocks(BeatIt).

It’s all very simple. you know all of the other things, the personality traits that you enjoy and the things that you would like to have in common with the person. The sad thing is that people who make hobby or habit out of using people in order to get ahead are chameleons. They can fake everything except income, having their own place to stay and their own transportation for an extended period of time.

I usually don’t divulge that much game in one dose, but I held an extended conversation with a young lady that I didn’t know from Adam about a guy that was living off of her and wanted to fight her when she asked him to pay rent or leave. Many of you that know me don’t know that I have had an instance with a negro of the same caliber. He had it made up in his mind to absolutely destroy my life as I knew it. When I made my way out of that situation happy and healthy I made a promise to save as many people from that same situation as possible, or at least try to by showing them how to avoid it all together.

THE WAY OUT, WHEN IT SEEMS TOO LATE (LADIES)

When you’ve called over your male friends to scare him and the police get to know you by name. If you have not went completely nuts, I mean lost your mind like you need to be on medication.
NOW IS THE TIME. Start off with what I like to call QUIET CRAZY.
Start saying disturbing things about him, and how long it took the police last time and if anyone heard you all scream. Start scratching everywhere (on you). Laugh in your “sleep” and mumble “Die motherfucker” then wake up abruptly and boil some water. (JUST MAKE TEA!!!) But, pay attention to the look on his face, He is freaking out & thinking of a new place to stay!

When all else fails, wait until he goes somewhere and call someone to change the locks. Neatly place his stuff on the porch (cover it if it’s raining-Judge Judy is no joke), call all your friends over and have a party. This does 2 things, create witnesses and a ride out squad in case he acts a fool.
Most importantly, live your life knowing what its worth. Treat yourself like how you want your mate to treat you, like a queen.

Be Safe Out There!

FUCK THEM BITCHES @ PEP BOYS on GAHwy.78

Yeah I said it. More of the penis brigade. Once again I’m getting treated like Little lady that doesn’t know anything about cars. I went to get a diagnostic and when my husband asked them how everything was going they didn’t give him a clear answer. Since I am the one who checked the car in and it was in my name I go back to the front and ask them what the name of the part was that my car needs.

The Old fucker, doesn’t even look me in the face (major violation in Marri-ville) when I ask him a question. He responds as though I’m bothering him and nobody gives me a clear answer. They gave me the old the part broke off and you might not make it routine that I am too smart to fall for. (I made it home safely where I am getting this blog out and waiting for repairs)

At the end of the day I chose not to do business with them any further since they were charging me the diagnostic on top of the labor for replacing the part.

Upon my grand exit (you know I made it a good one), I got a phone call from a good friend of mine that is a mechanic that we have trusted in “The Fam” for a long time. He asks me whats wrong & why wasn’t I able to get everything fixed there @ Pep Boys. And I proceed to tell him (as I swipe my card @ the counter) that the racist-sexist assholes choose to act as though I am bothering them and they have piss-poor customer service, and they are obviously not in the mood to get paid today. BRIAN- the bold blond asshole ringing me up chimes in “that don’t bother me” Immediately I inform him that I don’t give a fuck how he feels about anything because I wasn’t talking to him & that he needed to shut the fuck up talking to me because I wasn’t talking to him. I get the rest of the information from my friend on the phone and loudly proclaim that the whole store can “EAT SHIT AND DIE” .

Whew. Now you know I needed that one. They had no idea who the hell walked in the door when they tried to hit me with that bullshit attitude routine. I am not now, nor have I ever been something to play with when it comes to me spending money….. or anything else that I feel like I should get a little damn respect for, for that matter.

NOT EVERYONE ON DUTY THAT DAY (TODAY 2pm-4pm) WAS AN ASSHOLE, JUST THE OLD FUCKER ON DUTY AND THE HOT SHOT PRICK BEHIND THE COUNTER.

EVERYONE ELSE ACTUALLY TREATED ME WITH GREAT CUSTOMER SERVICE AND RESPECT THOSE OTHER 2 FUCKERS CAN SUCK IT!!!!

Ugly People in General

So I’m on MySpace.com advertising the blog, so you all can get some more Opinions to play with. I have but one comment;

The ugliest people in the world take the most pictures of themselves & more often than not they don’t have on nearly enough clothing.

Let’s work on changing that, ok? Be a real friend & stop your ugly comrades from over publicizing their not-so-hottness. LOL I had to say it. I wish you all could’ve seen what I saw, on second thought, I love you guys so I won’t wish that on you.

(Hottness check tip of the day; take pictures with a mirror close, if the reflection reminds you of a popped can of biscuits, think twice on that trigger finger or get savvy on photoshop.)

Okay so that was more than one comment but U LOVED IT 🙂

VMA Opinions at random

First of all YAAAY Russell Brand for the huge Obama endorsement. Jamie Foxx was looking hot with his Old Ass, LOL. Who doesn’t love that guy?

Personally I could’ve done with out the movie set performances. It seemed so extra.

Ciara was wrong as hell for the big ass bob.
Jordin Sparx had a moment about those rings. You go girl! Nothing wrong with keeping it on lock.

Now, is it just me or does Corbin Bleu make you want to start watching Disney Channel on a regular. That baby drank milk. (hope he’s grown)

*pause* How high was Lil Wayne on the stage with Kid Rock? WOW INDEED (I had to say that in N.O. Slang) huhm bruh?

Pink had a kick ass haircut, but who the hell is styling Tokio Hotel? He looked like Yu-Gi-Oh the one that was talking.

Am I the only one that missed being able to flip between VH1 & MTV? That was some bullshit, wasn’t there supposed to be a new episode of something tonight? That sucked.

I am personally ecstatic that Brit took home video of the year+2, but I would’ve loved it if she told the media to suck it. That would’ve been awesome. On another note, was I tripping or was Ms.Aguillera getting her mili-vanili on? That performance was a waste of having FannyPack as your backup crew.

Uuuum, when was MaryJBlidge’s song “Fine” considered Hip-Hop? Maybe I missed it.

Kanye…..Kanye…..Kanye; Moesha daddy haircut, strobelight lapel pin in a heart shape, and the caught in the fan voice effect. How long will we be subject to the computer love vocie people? I’m totally over it.

Know what else I’m over? The post-award show, and The shadow members of The Pussycat dolls… it’s a new 2 bitches with them every time you see them., The banana peel outfit that girl kiss song chick was wearing and the obligatory RE-CAP 2 seconds after it all finished. OTHER THAN THAT IT KICKED ASS!
What did you guys think?

Why do you walk around with that?

Listening to women these days I notice how much baggage we actually hold on to. For those of you that know me personally I think very highly of myself. Just because I do. I talk about people sometimes but not ever in the same sentence or conversation that I am justifying my own personal hotness. We as women spend allot of time hating on each other for no reason at all.

(Disclaimer: there are instances when you just don’t like a bitch that you just met and you don’t know why, and I’m not talking about that!)

We will say things like, “it’s not all about light-skinned” or “skinny bitches…blah,blah, blah” or “__________ is out” in reference to to whatever your opposite may be.

Why do you walk around with all of that? That’s just bad business, anytime you have to discredit another in order to have your shit shine that is a key indicator that your shit ain’t much to begin with.

I love me some ME. I don’t have to hate something else in order to feel that way, I fuckin ROCK in my eyes. Maybe if more of us left the house with that attitude we’d have a little more girl unity, and a little less hatin.

(But there’s some bitches you just can’t like, so I don’t blame you)
😉