It would be interesting to find out how others think about trust.
Over the years I’ve gone through many different situations that have caused me to reevaluate how I allow myself to trust others. From jobs, to business ventures to friends and romance, I’ve had every reason to walk around with my guard up, but I find that my most rewarding experiences take place when I allow myself to open up and trust that the energy that I put out will be returned in kind at some point.
The most important trust to extend is to your own inner voice. Not the voices in your head, but that still small voice that originates in the pit of your stomach. Once you learn to trust yourself, it becomes much easier to extend that faith to people and things around you.
Where did I get this theory?
I lived a very guarded life after a small tragedy took place thinking that things would ultimately get better if I didn’t allow myself to interact with too many people. I thought that I’d reduce my chances of being hurt. The reality is that the energy that I had surrounding me was repelling the wrong people. Yes I had fewer people around, but I sacrificed the presence of some quality friends in the process.
Once I recognized my circle had become toxic, I slowly but surely turned the wall around my heart into a fence. I let people start to see the real me, and in that was able to determine who I could let in. Once my fence technique proved effective I began to realize that nobody has the power to do anything to me. Ill will and bad intentions reveal themselves if you are vigilant, and in that you’re less likely to have untrustworthy people in your presence.
What do I do now?
I give people enough space to show me exactly who they are. I don’t shut myself down and I no longer fear what someone may do to me as a result of my genuine behavior because I know that eventually the Universe will return whatever I put out.
I don’t claim to know it all, I’d love to know what you all think about trust.
Is it possible to trust others when you haven’t learned to trust your gut?
Can you live a full life being guarded?
How do you get past the feeling of wanting to shut people out?
Hash it out in the comments below. We can all stand to pick up some positive techniques.
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