What is smart dating?

Smart dating is when you have some form of a standard, not necessarily a list, but a system that I like to call MeetIt or BeatIt.

MeetIt- Whatever your standard of living is at the time, the person that you are courting should have at the very least, what you have. Make sense? Doesn’t sound like gold-digging does it? Because it’s not! It is knowing your worth. It is the #1 key to not ending up with someone living off of your accomplishments & taking you for granted, or even worse them getting the feeling that you owe them something. (moochers tend to get that act going & its a hard thing to shake if you don’t know how to fight.

BeatIT- This is the complex portion of the philosophy. Either your potential mate needs to exceed the current standard of living(BeatIt). Or he/she needs to kick rocks(BeatIt).

It’s all very simple. you know all of the other things, the personality traits that you enjoy and the things that you would like to have in common with the person. The sad thing is that people who make hobby or habit out of using people in order to get ahead are chameleons. They can fake everything except income, having their own place to stay and their own transportation for an extended period of time.

I usually don’t divulge that much game in one dose, but I held an extended conversation with a young lady that I didn’t know from Adam about a guy that was living off of her and wanted to fight her when she asked him to pay rent or leave. Many of you that know me don’t know that I have had an instance with a negro of the same caliber. He had it made up in his mind to absolutely destroy my life as I knew it. When I made my way out of that situation happy and healthy I made a promise to save as many people from that same situation as possible, or at least try to by showing them how to avoid it all together.

THE WAY OUT, WHEN IT SEEMS TOO LATE (LADIES)

When you’ve called over your male friends to scare him and the police get to know you by name. If you have not went completely nuts, I mean lost your mind like you need to be on medication.
NOW IS THE TIME. Start off with what I like to call QUIET CRAZY.
Start saying disturbing things about him, and how long it took the police last time and if anyone heard you all scream. Start scratching everywhere (on you). Laugh in your “sleep” and mumble “Die motherfucker” then wake up abruptly and boil some water. (JUST MAKE TEA!!!) But, pay attention to the look on his face, He is freaking out & thinking of a new place to stay!

When all else fails, wait until he goes somewhere and call someone to change the locks. Neatly place his stuff on the porch (cover it if it’s raining-Judge Judy is no joke), call all your friends over and have a party. This does 2 things, create witnesses and a ride out squad in case he acts a fool.
Most importantly, live your life knowing what its worth. Treat yourself like how you want your mate to treat you, like a queen.

Be Safe Out There!