So there’s a story going around about a young lady that works in the adult entertainment industry that attends Duke University.
This has sparked a lot of heated discussions inside of some debate groups I’m a part of on Facebook. The overarching theme seems to be, “she chose this life, of course she’s a whore” or “what did she expect?” along with “don’t you dare call yourself a feminist”.
The problem is that she was involved in some films that included rough sexual encounters that were later marketed as “rape porn”. She claims to not have any knowledge of how the films would be packaged which is believable in that most on-screen/ in front of the camera individuals sign releases and have no clue when or how their work will be used.
For example: I have a friend that did some random modelling gigs in her early 20s whose work I found on the cover of a best-selling book. When I reached out to congratulate her, she had no clue what I was talking about until I sent her the link.
So let’s get to the heart of the matter that the young woman who came out feels liberated and sees herself as a feminist, when so many have lined up to call her a whore. What is it that constitutes feminism? Is it not the advancement of women in a male dominated society? Does it not include the struggle for equal economic access and opportunities for advancement? Why then would the worlds oldest industry be excluded from the list of places that women can advance?
I’m confused in that the adult entertainment industry is a multi-billion dollar cash cow that extends much farther than pornographic films. There are business offices and executive positions attached to that industry just the same as oil and gas. Yet, some have decided that she’ll find herself destitute from the shame and stigma of having been involved. Even though she’ll most likely complete her college degree debt free, and will on paper be more financially/ fiscally responsible than her peers upon graduation. If she came out as a proponent of clean coal rather than a porn star, wouldn’t there still be some doors that opened and closed for her just the same?
The stigma attached to involvement in the industry sticks longer on the female employees/contractors. In my opinion the claims that she has not business calling herself a feminist are misplaced. The working conditions, rates of pay and accepted levels of risk are all a result of the shame pinned on the workers. If a person feels as though they have devalued themselves they are less willing to fight for better healthcare, rates of pay and respect in the workplace. Shame is a tool that’s been used in most capitalist systems to keep the price of labor to a minimum. By her not subscribing to the notion that she should cover her face everywhere she goes and pretend that she is not who she is disrupts the system. One of the goals of feminism, is to disrupt the status quo and equalize the female influence in a given situation. Shame is responsible for the marginalization of thousands of women within the past 50 yrs alone being shut out of billions of dollars in the adult entertainment industry. The few that have been able to capitalize have been the ones that not only embraced their involvement, but progressed to learn the business behind the camera.
I am by no means attaching some moral pass to the profession, or stating that it’s not realistic to believe that the young lady will have a hard time representing certain brands as an employee after this much exposure, but I am saying that there is room for her to grow to the executive level if she decides to utilize her degree inside of the industry that she’s already a part of, which has not been successfully dismantled by any movement.
I wrote this in hopes that it would inspire people to analyze a given situation prior to applying their default school of thought. Try not to judge a book, based on the reviews of others. (I had to update it to this generation as most of our books are digital 🙂 ) Those of us that do not agree with her life decisions don’t have any power to say what she may accomplish in life. (There’s a Mensa member (Life After Porn- available on Netflix) that has moved from an on-screen personality to an executive producer. )Those of us that wish to strip her of her self-appointed feminist status have no right to do so if we are not a part of the group of women that she’s seeking to liberate.
It’s been a while since I’ve written here, hopefully this was worth the wait. Let me know!